How to avoid getting pressured from another person at work, issues, talks, anything. How to do it without being in their bad books?

Many question this to themselves, from a work enviroment to how to alter your thoughts.

It’s simple solution…. Do what you think if right but in a polite manner.

My experience I had to deal with people who would push their decisions on me and alter my thoughts to such a extend where I would doubt myself and my decisions, at one stage I couldn’t decide for myself. YES, that is how often people decided for me. How I changed that? Well, I started seeing the brighter side of the decisions if I didn’t see it I wouldn’t be bothered to go for it. Yes, in this process I came across people jumping down my throat, playing the blame game and getting all sensitive with me, eventually they would expect ME to apologise for something they made up in their minds. It was unfair and strange for me. That’s when I learned how to observe and understand what people want and who to pick as my mates and when I would speak my thoughts and my decisions the rare one’s who I am greatful to call as real friends would make me feel confident and comfortable.

People will always judge you, make you feel like the bad person, insult you, backstab you and give you all sorts of titles BUT keep in mind they do this because they are threaten by you.

Over time, I grew out of it yet I didn’t grow out of my naivety. I kept seeing the brighter side even if someone did something wrong to me like judging which is so common, I started seeking solutions for all the negativity, for judging I thought to myself if there was no judgment how would anybody hold a conversation?

And that is when I started to observe people and turns out in most situations especially fake ones it is true. Realist would focus on positive side and improvise themselves but fake ones would point every flaw in somebody else.